Why?

ok so today i read the first chapter of the god delusion. Btw it seems really good so far.

I got to the part where he talks about how the religious and religions basically seem to have more privileges than us atheists. I must say it makes me angry that one New Mexico church oh just by using religion they get to drink/take something with an illegal drug in it. As ruled by the supreme court. Then even in the face of evidence the supreme court says nope cannabis is still illegal and you can still face federal prosecution even though it eases the nausea and discomfort of people who have cancer undergoing chemotherapy.

and it makes me laugh that xtian groups on campuses sued just because of anti-discrimination rules protecting homosexuals. And that this kids gets to wear a very offensive t-shirt that says "homosexuality is a sin, Islam is a lie,abortion is murder. Some issues are just black and white!" The school tells him he cant wear it (geez i wonder why) and his parents sue and win. and they used religion as their excuse of course or the first amedment freedom of religion thing. And yet the other day i hear about some teens in Florida wearing t-shirts that say peace they get bullied and then arent allowed to wear them anymore. It makes me sick.

and what is even funnier or sadder or angrier idk which it is. Is that these xtain groups in college with the support of the Reverend Rick Scarborough want to get religion established as a legal justification to discriminate against homosexuals and others. He (rick) said "Xtains are going to have to take a stand for the right to be xtain" which seems according to Hitchens and to me that the "right to be xtain" means "the right to poke you nose in to others private lives". That is so true and so disgusting.

and i guess they won or xtains are breaking the law or they sjut dont care about the law. Cause they stick their noses in other peoples private lives all the time. What with abortion issue or trying to keep away gay rights. Or trying to convert athiests.

and jsut think he has already layed out alot of evils of religion. It seems to me that the religous (not all but most) think this that "You must respect me, not question my religion, but im going to show you no respect and treat you badly but you cant do the same to me." I mean who knows i might be wrong idk.


so considering that why should we respect the religious/religion?

they also seem to think we shouldnt be allowed to question it...idk why not

And btw im loving this book so far it is a real eye opener. I might just  might start blogging about this book daily if anything sticks out to me that i wanna talk about.

anyway those are jsut my thougthts.

what do you think?

-jamie g.

Survery cause im bored

How do you feel about life right now?
its life im trying to live it the best i can. I mean ik i can make it beet and that i will.
What's your biggest regret?
The more i think about it, the more i must say i dont really have any. In the end what ive done has made me who i am. And ik i dont regert comeing out and speaking my mind and telling it like it is,
Do you tell your best friend everything?
No ive never told my best friends everything. Im human i do have secerts.
How is your day?
Fairly good. Been watching races and been relaxing at home today.
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
My weight.
How has this year treated you?
its treated me fairly well. Ohter than losing friends after coming out. But they probally werent my true friends anwyay.
Are you excited for anything?
Not right now.
Has anyone changed your life?
Hmmmmm id have to say my atheist friends for giving me the tool to get back common sense and smarts. But jessie ann has really changed it. By being  being there for me, and if she reads this i really and truyl am sry for what ive become.
Do you want kids one day?
To be honest no not really. I dont think id be a good dad.
Are you pregnant?
Im a guy so i cant be.
Are you random?
Idk ask my friends/family. I dont thuink i am.
Are you easy to understand?
I think so. But who know ive been told before that my views change constantly. So i think i am but maybe not.
What color are your socks?
white.
Are you happy?
Hmmmmm somewhat. Im alive and have jessie ann and my mom in my life so yeah.
How's your heart?
Its good

My thoughts On The "where the good guys at?/are there any good guys left?" type of girl

Now i must warn yall who read my blogs and stuff this isn't gonna be like any others. idk if it'll be offensive or not but i felt the need to write it. Im gonna talk about relationships and friendships in this one.

First off id like to address the question of where are the good guys at? A questions that i see alot when browsing the internet. well i can promise you girls were out there. Were just the ones you always ignore or dont pay as much attention to. I mean come one we all know its true girls you know its true also...you look past us and go for the assholes everytime.

Im writing this part cause of someones status on myyearbook asking this very question. so she responds to the thought that we always get looked past with well its more to the package other than being a good guy. See thats jsut becoming picky IMO. and then this guy named alex comes in btw i respect him he is really smart and seemed to know what he was talking about.

so alex says:

"But girls never give the good guy a chance to show who they are I know you goota make the chance but its kinda hard when woman don't give you the time of day lol"

that is so true an as far as where i live ik about all that. They say oh well i just wanna be friends or whatever. I mean im sure some of good guys arent the best looking and maybe were nerdy but still would you rather have a good guy or an asshole who treats you badly. Cause im sure we have good stuff to us also. or theyll jsut ingore you till their taken again.

Note: were getting to the point where me and alex kinda disagreed but not really that much.

he goes on to say that i was right and that it is very much bull when it happens and then they except you to be there when things go wrong with the guy they choose over you.Although i think that what guy friends are suppsoed to be there for. I do get his point because it is frustating when they want you there for them and here you was a good guy and they choose over the asshole over you or me or whoever then come crying to whoever when they should have choosen you in the first place.

to which i said well im loyal to mmy friends even though some pull that over and over again. or have even though i dont get to talk to my friends from where i live very much anymore. Ik they have pulled that on me many times.

and his basically finished it off by saying:

"I think after a certain point its the same as a guy usein a girl she's just using you to get past him then she casts you to the side again"

now im not gonna say that every girl ive ever been freinds with has done this. But i do know quite a few that have. And i do agree it may even be worse then a guy usein a girl cause your supposed to be friends. But i mean its always been that way for good guys and probably always will be. Cause thats just the way some girls are and it would be hard for them to ever change.

and to finish this up id just like to add one more thing. As far as friends goes im one of the most loyal, loving, and caring people you could ever meet. So you can only imagine how much it has and still would if anybody did what was talked about above. IMO girls who does what was mentioned above shouldnt even be allowed to have a single friend male or female cause that is a horrible to treat your friends. This is taking into account the fact that some are bi and or lez also.

I mean girls like that shouldnt even get any attetion and shouldnt have a single person be their friend.

To the guys out there with a female friend like what i talked about above just leave. Shell realize how good you was to her. And she'll beg you to come back into her life. But dont come back into their life asssholes like that arent worth the time or your friendship. There are better friends then that out there.

So what do yall think?

-Jamie G.

Breaking the first admendent/xtain bullies

Here is someone to keep on ur radar Damon Fowler.  He is a high school senior who stop up against the unconstuitonal practice of prayer at his high school graduation. Now this story has shocked some but not me what do some xtains always do well they bully and intimidate. Now here's the story bascilly he knew they were gonna do a prayer at his graduation something they have done for years. He stood up and bascilly said if it wasn't stopped he would get the ACLU involved. So the principal changed the program and made it a "moment of silence" instead. Which sounds good to me.

Then one of his teachers trashes him in the local newspaper saying he hasn't contributed anything to his graduation or classmates. That's right folks this Guy who is supposed to be a role model trashed him. That is so wrong IMO I mean do you really want ur kids to have a role model like that. This teacher also said that others have kept their mouths shut why can't he? Well duh what ur doing is against what is supposed to be the law of the land. That's disgusting I'm glad he stood up. He's the true American not these Christian who won't even obey the law of the land.

Americans united said it right that he did contribute by standing up for what was right.


Reddit gave him a $1000 scholarship and I applud them for that.


Then at the practice this girl gave a 3 minute long prayer. I mean ik their allowed to mention god in their speeches but for that long.what were you school officials thinking? Oh wait u wanted it cause I forgot majority rules. Well actually no it don't get that through yalls heads.

So they have the ceremony this past Friday. The program listed a moment of silence. But what actually happened was more proof of how horrible they and some other xtains are. Not atht all xtains are bad but nonetheless.

So they get to this girl. Idr her name. And she bascilly gives him a big f*** you. She says "I m an xtain now I respect those with different beliefs but....". Wow really you respect them huh? Then she goes on to say the lords prayer, have a moment of silence, and then say the pledge (which had under god in it). Yea you must really respect those with different beliefs huh?

What if a Muslim had done that the whole stadium and you would have been mad.

What's even worse is in the end his mom kicked him out after his graduation or maybe it was before I'm not for sure. Why cause he stood up to xtain bullies. And tried to protect the law. That is one of the most horrible xtain mothers I've ever heard of.

Well hope y'all enjoyed it. And I also hope y'all get sued and that the school has to shut down forever. You little terds and bullies. Idk if thzll happen but if it does I won't feel sorry for them.

Luckily if there is a silver lining to this it Is that his brother is giving a place to stay. And is helping him sign up for core classes. And is taking care of him unlike his mom. If she never see them again it'll be the best thing that happened to them. I wouldn't go back to a mom like that. Also the blog called the friendly zthiest is helping raise money for him.


Those are just my thoughts.

-jamie g.

christainity what a joke/to the athiest youth

so umm this is a response to my cuzs status which called athiesm a joke. And yet IMO Christianity is an even bigger joke. I mean you open up the bible and it starts out by saying that such a complex universe could be created in 6 days. Oh hahaha you make me laugh. Or then in the garden of Eden there is a talking snake. Really you think that were a joke and yet believe in stuff like that. Or how about the thought that somehow two of every animal would fit on a boag. I could go on and on all day about what a joke the bible is but I'll save y'all from that.

Then how about Harold camping now ik most Christians thought he was a joke also. And yet he has turned Christianity into a joke. Or how about the fact that most xtains believe that a guy who has been dead for 2000 years is coming back anyway. I mean have u ever seen anyone come back After that long ik I haven't. But I guess believe what u wanna believe I'll just here and laugh alot.

Or how about those who cherry-pick the bible they are laughing stock also. I mean at least athiests don't cherry pick stuff. We look at all the data and information. And if it doesn't add up to a logical conclusion then we don't take it seriously. While xtians on the other hand use cifcualr reasoning. The best example is this:

How do you know the bible is gods word? The bible says so. Thus it must be gods word. What a laugh I get out of that every time I hear it. What a joke.

And then xtains think about this using the example of evolution:

When you try to make it work with the bible you have to use cutting and pasting where as with science you don't have to.

That is just another example of how much a joke Christianity is. And I could go on forever but I wont.


Now lets go on to one last thing for this note

so in the hours before the supposed to be rapture (though we know all know how fake that was). I was putting up music videos with comments making fun of the rapture and the people who believed in it. But apparently one comment got some of my xtain friends mad at me.

The comment went something like this:

"If the rapture does happen then the world will be a better place and if it doesn't then I can laugh at xtzins even more. Either way its gonna be a good night"

Which ik is a little insensitive but sometimes the truth hurts. I mean would the three who thought this was offensive rather me lie or tell the truth.

Now lets back it up. Think about this if xtains weren't around then prison populations would be bascilly nothing. If they weren't around then gays might actually have the right to marry. Women would have the right to choose instead of all these xtain men passing laws limiting that right. Gays wouldn't be bullied. Hate speech like aids is gods punishment for being gay wouldn't be around. And maybe an athiest could be elected to a position of power. And to those who are offended by me saying this stuff then well I'm not sorry.

And I'm not gonna lie just so someone even my family won't get offended I'm gonna tell the truth and put my thoughts out there.

This final part goes out to the athiest youth on my list.

Be prepared for them to try to d anything to convert you. Theyll use threats of hell. Which btw is not and never ever will be a real place. So don't let them scare you into their faith your athiest you know better than to believe such fairytales. And i ve seen from the other day they'll use minpulation, playing with ur emotions, an the guilt games to get you to convert. They'll say stuff like but think of who has always been there for u. Or fine then see who you turn to in a month. Or I'm gonna turn you into an outcast in our family. And I'm sure other things also.

All I can say is be strong. And that you are not alone there are lots of athiest out there. And just aways remember sometimes your friends have to become your family for awhile an that's OK. Your family will turn around eventually. And if they don't then your probally better off without them anyway. Cause anybody who would turn you into an outcast cause of religion or because they can't convert you then they never really loved you in the first place. Like I said they'll probally come around. But some won't just be strong you can make it.

To those who get offended by this or any of my other posts then either delete me or hide my stuff from your news feed. But stop bitching cause I ain't gonna ever shut up. Plz and thank you.

-jamie g.

pro-life or pro-choice?

Well for me I really don't like the term pro life because if your forcing someone to have a baby they can't afford to have or didn't want then ur not rly pro life IMO because your taking life away from the mother if its a money issue then your forcing them to possibly have to put money towards something they can't afford if they want it then same thing so those who use the term pro life really aren't IMO
Now getting to whether or not I think abortion is right I think it rly is because if u can't afford to have it then don't have or didn't want it then don't have it
Because in the case of it being unexcepted then well if u hadnt planned for it then is it rly fair to make them have it? Not rly IMO I guess u could but if the woman chooses to have it that's OK but if they decide they don't want it then they should be able not to have it
In the case of rape once again why force them to have it because number one it is just gonna be a bad memory for them to have to deal with and number 2 they don't want it so why should they have to carry it and stuff the same goes for both statutory rape and just plain old rape
And in the case of money if they afford once again you shouldn't force them to have it because they can't afford it and they are just gonna be sad
Note: when I use the word it I'm referring to the baby esoecailly the fetus but the other stages also
And now ik some republicans and/or Christians would say stuff like:
1. If  a woman didn't want it maybe they shouldn't have been having sex to which I say yea but they can have fun to and I'm sure they problly use protection so let them have the dang abortion
2. If they want it let it be born and give it away to away someone else or to an orphanage or something like that
*my response: well the orphanages are too full as is it is and you republicans are like cut the spending well how about we let women who want to have an abortion have it then maybe those places wouldn't be so full and sending on those could go down. Also if its a situation where they were raped then well duh they want the baby to track them down or have to see it if they gave it away ro someone else so let them have their abortion.
So awhile back I saw an article that said republicans somewhere want to and may have already make it where statutory rape victims couldn't get an abortion because the hand of God. Would turn it into something good. I must say that it was sad to me but I did want to laugh at the fools they are. But anyway there IX no hand of god get some common sense please. Second off this is old men who are trying to control it. And they are using religion as their excuse. Well to them I say stop using religion in ur policymaking and using it as an excuse. And by doing that ur in a way forcing ur religion down our thorats so please stop doing that.
So to answer the question I'm pro-choice stop taking away a woman's right to choice. And stop using religion as the reasoning for it.

Ans yes I do think this is one thing the government should stay out of.
I'd just like to say I don't believe in statutory rape but I won't get into that.
Tell me what you think do I got this right or wrong. And what are your options on it.
-jamie g

Thoughts From the last few days (also a respone to some of what xtains have told me)

Ok first off i would just like to say i love seeing my atheist and Christan friends discussing stuff and getting to be a part of it. That is alot of fun and makes my day.

Next id like to address what i meant when i said i was feeling anti-social last night. I just felt that way because there was noone to talk to and i was in my own world thinking about stuff. That and i felt really lonely like i have been lately. One of the things i was thinking about was would all those who signed my year book the senior one and maybe the next junior one with all the love and stuff would they be that nice if i had came out as an atheist during my junior year. I really dont know maybe maybe not im not sure. I was also thinking the other day that maybe if mom and dad had wanted me to have one from every year of school i could have got one that maybe they should have been kept somewhere other then my home. Because once that home burned down so did all my yearbooks and the sigantures from over the years. But anyway i didnt know it was gonna happen so whatever. But needless to say if it like the response ive gotten when i first came out noone would have signed it..and if they did it would not have been very nice. As a matter of fact one of the girls who signed it my senior year and i think had said love whoever the person was..and said nice things about me well they wouldnt even add me on here after i came out as an atheist.

Note: i will not be saying names when i talk about a couple of convos i had and my thoughts on them.

So then that rolls into the convo i had with someone the other day.

Where someone said the lord gets them thorough helps them have strength and reminds her that she is meant to be alive. Now although ik that you can get through that stuff or have it without a god/lord/jesus i can see her pint also. And honestly alteast as far the emotional strength thing goes ive been looking for a way to get it back and aint found it yet. Does that mean im gonna turn to the Christian god that is supposedly real? No im not but i do need help with emotional strength. As far as the alive part goes if i was supposed to be dead i would be dead.

She also asked me:

"But where's the faith, the hope, the purpose.. If you believe we were put here to die & melt into the earth. Your theory states we don't even have souls. so tell me, Jamie, without a soul how do you wonder? How do you hurt? Or miss, or love? How??"

btw the person that said those two things is one of my bestest friends ever. and her fiance is also.

Well i really guess the faith left me when i became an atheist and start looking at life realistically instead of through an emotional/god lenses. Though it may have been before then i really cant answer that question. The hope well i really dont know either. I guess i maybe have some hope that im gonna wake up or be successful or have friends from day-to-day. The purpose that is the hardest one for me to answer cause idk what my purpose in life is. I aint figured out that yet. I aint even figured out the purpose of living yet. I do know this you can hurt, miss, and love without a soul. And one more thing that is not my theory.

She is wrong about another thing though she said faith is not a decision its a felling. I have to disagree with that.

So i messaged someone else and this someone else is a christian and has at times in my life been  like a second mom to me. And i said "im sry i disagree with you on religion" because it is hard to disagree with someone like that on something. and she says this "JAMIE God created you with a purpose in mind. HE is a parent. When a child misbehaves he is punished but when he is good he is rewarded. Our father has prepared a wonderful home for those of us who love him."

Well then there goes my free will and here comes that god's master plan thing again. Im sry you cant have it both ways either we have free will or this "god" (if he was real) has a plan for us and there really is no point in doing anything. Yeah i agree those who misbehave should be punished (like religious freaks). And as far as the home comment goes i dont have anything to say about that.

Then she goes on to say "He sent his own son to die so that you and i may have a wonderful life. He loves you and doesnt want you to have to live with corruption and evil."

Well what kind of loving father says son please dies for all these people so they can be saved. That just sounds really messed up to me. Oh he loves me huh? that why according to you he created me with two bad ankles which have been twisted and sprained more times then i can count. And made it where i have to be very careful cause they are so weak they could break anytime. Thats why he supposedly made me drown when i was young or wreck a 4wheller twice one seriously burning my leg. (im ok now btw). That is why he made my house burn down and take all those yearbooks with all my memories and signatures from all my closest friends away. (see above if you dont know what im talking about) Thats why eh gave my dad cancer and then caused the fire so he could die. Thats why he took away all three of the closest friends i ever had who were like sisters to me (two of which are your daughters and one of which might as well be your daughter) And i could go on and on about this part but i wont.

Note: in the above ik i caused some of the stuff like nearly drowning, wrecking the 4-wheeler twice, or losing my three closest friends i ever had and who might as well have been my sisters) i was just pointing out the flaws in her arugement or appeal that god loves me by using examples from my own life. Cause if hes an all powerful god and has a plan for us and really did do all that then that sounds like the most unloving god ive ever heard of. ans i also know genetics  and other bad things caused some of the stuff above not god if there was one.

And god doesnt want me to live with corruption and evil huh? Well if he is all powerful why doesnt he just stop it? and also if you would do your research online and look up who killed more int he bible god or Satan you would find that god killed alot more than Satan. Im just saying. As far as whos more evil he sent satan who if i remember correctly was originally an angel in gods kingdom (according to the bible). I think he got sent out of heaven supposedly just because he did something that god or jesus didnt agree with. So id have to say that makes god mroe evil by a logn shot oh i didn't agree with you haha so im gonna kick you out heaven and send you to hell (yeah nice loving god huh?)

Note: if someone can correct me thatll be fine. Im just saying what i think i remember happened.

By the way if you mentioned in this note and know who you are then please know im not trying to attack you or anything just giving you my response to stuff you said now that ive thought about it.

I love feed back on these notes so leave me some please especially if your tagged.

Thanks,

peace, love, and happiness to all

-Jamie G.

Dad's Cancer and House Fire (3 years later)

So since this my newblog  some of my athiest f friends may not know this. Now three years ago in november my dad died. Now my dad when i was still in high school got cancer in his lungs and other places. I did not know this for awhile because mom wanted to make sure. That scared me it really did. Then he started having a headache and this headache kept going on for like two months. So finally my mom takes him to the hospital to have a scan done. Im in school at this point and i had told mom before i left her that if anything was found out call me and get me out of school So my mom and dad get home to my old trailer and he falls in the mud cause it was raining and mom had told him to stay in the car while she unlocked the house. he gets out and tries to get to the house now he was a big man so he falls in the mud about this time moms gets a call from the hospital and they tell her to get him packed up pick up the results and go to emory. Well i am in high school just minding my own business when i get a call to the office. That was when i got really scared. So then my uncle comes and gets me and  takes me home i ride with with him down to emory.  We get down there wait and find out he got cancer on his brain. Well then we stayed down there idk how long i stayed and missed school. Btw they were able to remove one spot from his brain but the other they couldn't get.Then we come home and all go to bed. The next thing ik mom is waking me up and the house is on fire. And i get out and mom is trying to get dad out who is trying to put the fire out. We get out and were safe luckily my uncle had a place we could all stay at. So life goes on you could imagine how tough it was. And btw i had to go outside in my underwear with no shoes or shirt on and this was in the fall so it was cold. Anyway 4 days later my dad died and then i stayed out of school for  two months after that.

Btw it should be said my mom was the hero but so was our smoke detector because had it not woke her up then we might all be dead. and even thought this is an christian there are really some good people because my school raised like thousands of dollars for us and gave us stuff. My mom's boss paid her the whole time she was out of work. My teachers understood completely.

And btw this isn't the first near death experience ive had because i nearly drowned when iw as little after getting in too deep of water in a lake. One of my friends said to me after the fire and i told her i was unsure about god (aka as an agnostic) she said this was god trying to get me to convert but what kind of loving god would do that? and btw i was an agonstic at the time.

anyway now you know a short version of one of the hardest parts of my life.

and i do think this kinda proves that you dont need "god" to be strong cause after those two months i went back to school and got my dipolma eventually all without "god"..and am now in college..and never got depressed really and im doing good now...of course i was sad and am still a lil sad he strong but still

After Becoming An Atheist (Part 2)

So i went over to my aunts a couple of weeks ago after coming out as a atheist. We were at the dinner table eating supper or dinner whatever you wanna call it. Then her daughter in law i think she is says so Jamie i heard a nasty rumor about you. Id heard you were an atheist now. Of course it was in the middle of me eating so of course i get to sick my stomach. She likes would you like to explain yourself and im just frozen cant say anything. Of course you have got to consider that three Christians were at that table so it felt like i was getting bullied almost. I know i really wasn't but that's what it felt like. So Ive never told them anything or explained myself cause i feel like i shouldn't have to that they need to respect that just like i respect them begin xtains, So then i go into the bathroom and there is the sign on the left in the photo below that "says god is real and he loves me" then beside those words are "this is true". Then this week i look at the mirror and see the sticker on the right in the photo belwo that says "look who jesus loves". I guess the point of writing this is that i think its funny that those things went up after i came out as an atheist. I wish she would stop trying to convert me but that's not gonna happen. And besides its her house im just a visitor so what can i do about it? anyway its funny how xtains always try to convert atheists and everyone else like Christianity is the only religion in the whole world and is the only true thing in the whole world.

Btw looking back at what someone said one time when i was interested in learnign about the buddist relgion that my mom acted like i ahd lsot my mind. And her boss said at one time" but all those other relgions are flase the only thing that matters is that you accept jesus as your savior" (now im not sure if thats exactly what he said but its pretty close).

To see the pics im talking about look at the photo that is attached.

thanks for reading

-Jamie G.

The photos i refer to

After Coming Out As An Athiest

So i went to a funeral the other day the first once since coming out as an atheist. Well of course i knew it was gonna be hard because what do you say to someone about something like that when your an atheist? i didn't really say anything just gave hugs....never really tried to force my religion on anyone...cause we all know thats not right. Although some would dispute that but its my walla and my facebook so if you dont like what i post ignore it. So anyway ive had to delete my facebook my old one but yall done know that. I must say i love all my new found atheist friends. Anyway i got off track for a sec so ive been at this funeral home for the last couple of days...and i never ever forced my religion on anyone...never really said anything along those lines..i just gave hugs. So we get to the funeral or it gets time for. They read off this card that the family made. Then fthe first xtains....remember this a gathering of xtains and im the only athiest there. This guy who knows me and has come to the store alot starts praying to "god". btw this guy knew i was an athiest or atleast didnt believe like he did. Then and im pretty sure this was directed at me well he says and those who dont know god you need to be "saved or "everyone needs to pray for you" or something. I dont remember for sure. So the main preacher gets up there. And once again it seems directed it at me. How because he said something along the lines if your "lost" then please start going to chruch or something or everyone pray for them or go bless you then. once again i dont remember for sure. And he read a story about  this woman who was sick in the bible and supposedly became whole after touching jesus. And then we get over to the grave site anad another preacher i dont know who tries bascilly using fear tatics to say if you dont get saved you wont see this woman who died again. Now tell me how fair is that i never forced my religion on anyoen there. And yet it seems like three different times they target me (the only athiest there)..im assuming cause it seemed like all the rest were xtains....can someone plz explain to me how that could be fair?..or how they justify something like that? any xtains on my freins list plz know im not sure if this was targeting me or not but it sure does seem like it.